My Blog's goals

What I want to achieve in my blog is to express myself and share what God is teaching me, share my thoughts my hopes and dreams. To share my poems that God gives me and declarations that I learn that I think will help others on their journey to freedom. What I want to do is to encourage others to be the son or daughter that God has called them to be. I am studying a Leader Development Programme Year 1 through Global Legacy through Bethal Church in Redding California. I want to help set people free to help them in their journey of discovery. I have battled depression for many years and have been on medication for many years. I have been able to lower my dose by half and I am looking forward to the day that I am free from medication and are well emotionally I believe that can and will happen.

My Blog (Tag: marriage)

Keep Your Love On

Last night I went to Keep Your Love On its  course Mark and i are attending it has been an eye opener for me. I struggle sharing my heart with Mark as I don't always get a good response as I don't always use the right words especially around money and smoking it ends in a fight. It isn't always easy to keep your love on but it's a choice we both have made to help make our marriage better and stronger. what I learnt last night was to use i-messages as ... I feel hurt when you ignore my suggesting and I need to know that I am heard and understood. Great way of dealing with a heart that's is easily hurt. Mark is very sensitive and I need to remember that when we are trying to sort out an issue. Anyone that has been in a marriage breakdown and gone through a divorce or any relationship breakdown comes away with baggage Keep You Love On has helped show me where I am going wrong and gives me tools to correct my behaviour. I don't have anything super wise to say but I think it's up to us to own our mistakes and for our spouse to own his mistakes and not pass the buck lol. That didn't sound right. Anyway much love to you all de x
By De O'Neil